How To Approach Women Anywhere - Part 2

The kind of things that you need to start doing for yourself are :

1). Physical.

You may or may not regard yourself as good looking. Whether you are or not is irrelevant, but what is relevant is how you look. There is no need to look like you haven't washed in weeks. Men don't like to see women like that so why should women be any different?

Clean your teeth regularly, floss, dress nicely and wear clothes that go together. If in doubt ask the stores clerk on what she thinks looks good on you - make sure it's a female clerk. If money is an issue use the likes of Ebay. Get a cool hair cut [ask a female hairdresser] or if your hair is receding then keep it short and neat. Besides these days the no hair look is in anyway.

If you're overweight and you don't like it or it hampers your confidence then do something about it. Being fitter means that you will look better and more importantly feel better. If you feel better you will act more confident because your self esteem will be higher. And what you thought was once out of your reach is not anymore. In truth nothing and no-one is out of your reach, but right from an early age we are conditioned to believe in limitations rather than possibilities. Break free of the shackles that have held you back. You are alive and that alone means that you're a winner. Now go after what you want.

2). Mental

This is where the likes of body language and voice tone are controlled from. It is regarded that over 90% of human communication is through the way we stand or fidget and how we say our words, note here it's not what we're saying that counts. So check your posture in the mirror or with a friend. The way to stand tall is to imagine that you are being held up by a piece of string through your head. By doing this you straighten your spine, your shoulders fall back, chest moves out and you can breathe better becuase the lungs now have room to move. If your voice is high pitched do something about it. Women like men to have a deep voice. Record your voice and play it back and listen to how you sound. If necessary see a voice coach.

3). Your life

What do you do in your life? What are your passions? What do you love talking about? If it's nothing then you're going to find it harder to attract a woman. Women, particularly those who have their life together, will want a man who is going somewhere. That doesn't mean to say that he has to be rich or an Einstein, just that he has plans, ambitions with what he wants to do with his life.

For example, I love walking in the countryside and I made the mistake [or at least I thought] of mentioning this to a very attractive woman. Thinking that she's going to think I'm a nerd, I thought how could I back track and regain some credibility? To my surprise she was impressed that I had an interest I could talk passionately about. So there you go; it is not so much the interest or hobby that counts, it's what it means to you and how you talk about it to other people. Remember do not be-little your passions to women. Be proud of what you do, otherwise why are you doing it? Yes on the face of it certain hobbies have more sex appeal than others. For example parachuting sounds more exciting than stamp collecting. But does it and is it? It depends on you and how you tell the story of your hobby.

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